Comments on: Beware of STDs (Sexually Transmitted Debt)

By: J. Money

J. Money — Wed, 21 Jun 2017 21:12:14 +0000

There you are!! Was hoping you’d come across this – totally meant to send you the link and must have forgot, sorry about that. At least it made for a nice surprise :) Glad you enjoyed reading, and even more so you’re out of the grieving period and into the kicking ass one! I hope when your ex does contact you again he’s astonished at how amazing you’re doing without him :)

By: sugarglider

sugarglider — Tue, 20 Jun 2017 10:52:06 +0000

oh wow! Popped back on site and was so not expecting this!! And I do have something good to say – I am doing OK! Got over the grief cycle. Friends and meditation keep my head straight.
I have following this website for quite a few years – got a budget template and lots of motivation from you guys. Followed lots of the advice and ideas. This has been part of looking after myself and finding myself OK when the unexpected happened.
It has been 4 months now. I am still job hunting and doing part time contract work. So
Still no contact from Mr. MIA. Still don’t know why, or where he is. So – double check everything and go tell your loved one how much you love him/her.

Reading all these beautiful / funny / sad / affirming comments is uplifting and reminds me to stay on task. SO COOL lovely people – THANK YOU for sharing your stories. THANK YOU J Money for giving us real life guidance and encouragement

By: sugarglider

sugarglider — Tue, 20 Jun 2017 10:16:26 +0000

In reply to Melanie.

Melanie – peace and love to you lady
You are staying the course – both financially AND mentally – looking after yourself and making progress. Fabulous and impressive.

By: ZJ Thorne

ZJ Thorne — Thu, 15 Jun 2017 04:34:48 +0000

Oh man, that’s brutal! You think you have everything sorted and the other person just says no. Ugh. I would be so frustrated.

By: J. Money

J. Money — Wed, 14 Jun 2017 14:24:59 +0000

In reply to Fruclassity (Ruth). Holy hot dogs!!! You are my new hero! :)

By: Fruclassity (Ruth)

Fruclassity (Ruth) — Wed, 14 Jun 2017 01:31:16 +0000

Here is something good: After 5 years of debt-reduction, my husband and I have paid off $180,000 and we have $77,000 to go. We’re getting there! And this journey has made our relationship stronger. Warning taken though!

By: J. Money

J. Money — Tue, 13 Jun 2017 14:48:20 +0000

In reply to Money Under the Cushions. And what did he say??? Don't leave us hanging!! :)

By: Money Under the Cushions

Money Under the Cushions — Tue, 13 Jun 2017 14:11:44 +0000

This made me ask my husband if he loved me, while I looked deeply into his eye so I could see the truth. It also reaffirmed for me why having separate bank accounts is a good thing. We also have a combined account. I do feel like our conversations about stuff like this is much easier because we don’t have kids…but that’s based simply on experience with our familial and social circles.

By: J. Money

J. Money — Tue, 13 Jun 2017 13:44:34 +0000

In reply to Donna Freedman.

I hate and love reading your story every time I see it :) But never knew that’s how you got you start with writing!! how incredible! And you’re still rockin’ it after all these years – love it.

By: J. Money

J. Money — Tue, 13 Jun 2017 13:42:58 +0000

In reply to Cindy.

Ack!! I’m praying it works out well for you over here – you seem like a strong woman! And I hope he kids are all okay too! Tell me he at least is a part of their lives still? I don’t know how you can stop loving your kids like that – saddest thing in the entire world :(