Comments on: Marrying Logic with Emotion https://eliteedgemoney.com/marrying-logic-emotion/ Money | Minimalism | Mohawks Fri, 19 Feb 2021 13:24:59 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: J. Money https://eliteedgemoney.com/marrying-logic-emotion/#comment-131795 Fri, 03 Jan 2014 20:07:07 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=37119#comment-131795 In reply to Becky @ RunFunDone.

I think it’s the latter :) Then again I’ve never had high interest debt either and I seem to still like that snowball method… I guess what I’d do in that case if figure out a way to consolidate or just get it lower by calling persistently/etc until I win. But usually when people have super high interest it’s because of bad credit or other things going on in their lives :( So who knows… what’s important is that you and I are doing our best, right? :)

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By: Becky @ RunFunDone https://eliteedgemoney.com/marrying-logic-emotion/#comment-131769 Fri, 03 Jan 2014 04:56:37 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=37119#comment-131769 It’s funny because I’m with you on the mortgage vs investing thing…I know it makes more sense to invest, but I just hate having the mortgage, so I choose to overpay on it. But I’m very logical about the high-interest debts thing. I can’t stand it when people follow Dave Ramsey’s advice to pay the smallest debt first. It makes no sense! Huh. Maybe I need to get over it and let everyone do what they want. Yes, I guess that’s what I’ll do. Also, I’ve never had high interest debt, so perhaps that’s why it’s so easy for me to be logical about it! :)

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By: Jon @ MoneySmartGuides https://eliteedgemoney.com/marrying-logic-emotion/#comment-131766 Fri, 03 Jan 2014 02:09:08 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=37119#comment-131766 Agree 100%. You can’t tell someone to invest instead of pay off debt because most will never invest that money. They’ll use it for something else. People need to remember that personal finance is PERSONAL. You have to do whatever allows you to sleep at night. If paying off that 0% debt allows you to sleep better, then you should do that. Yes, it’s important to understand you could do better by investing that money, but if that debt adds stress to your life, then just get rid of it and be happy with the choice you made because it was the right choice for you.

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By: J. Money https://eliteedgemoney.com/marrying-logic-emotion/#comment-131727 Thu, 02 Jan 2014 15:43:50 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=37119#comment-131727 In reply to theFIREstarter.

There’s a lot more people out there financing new cars than paying off their mortgages though! As scary as that is.

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By: J. Money https://eliteedgemoney.com/marrying-logic-emotion/#comment-131726 Thu, 02 Jan 2014 15:41:55 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=37119#comment-131726 In reply to downunder sugarglider.

Good! That’s all I care about with these blog posts – to get people *thinking*. And then, hopefully *acting* :)

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By: J. Money https://eliteedgemoney.com/marrying-logic-emotion/#comment-131725 Thu, 02 Jan 2014 15:40:49 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=37119#comment-131725 In reply to FrugalTeacher.

Great question indeed! And honestly, who knows what you’re priorities are going to be over the next 3 years (or, even 3 months for that matter) so I always say go the route you’re excited about *right now* and then change it if your situation/emotions change.

For example, I wanted to pay off my mortgage in like 8 years and was gung-ho for almost 2 years, and then I had a baby and my wife stopped working and my business income went down and then we moved away from that house so it’s a totally different story now. And thus so, we stopped trying to kill it off and moved our energy elsewhere.

So, do what you think is the right path for *today*, and then evaluate as time goes on. There’s no rules saying you have to stick to your goal forever! We’re not robots :)

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By: J. Money https://eliteedgemoney.com/marrying-logic-emotion/#comment-131724 Thu, 02 Jan 2014 15:36:52 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=37119#comment-131724 In reply to Slinky.

Haha…. you know what’s funny? After I re-read this post one last time it *did* occur to me that I’m still choosing sides here – aka going the emotional route, instead of merging the two ;) But I like it too much to go back and spend another 30 mins editing, haha… Hopefully people got enough out of your quote to realize that anyways :)

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By: J. Money https://eliteedgemoney.com/marrying-logic-emotion/#comment-131723 Thu, 02 Jan 2014 15:34:03 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=37119#comment-131723 In reply to Broke Millennial.

Yup, or perhaps he just didn’t pay attention much before? Or *thought* he was enrolled when he wasn’t? That actually happened to me when I was a big idiot back in the day… My dad was on my back for years to enroll, and I guess I thought it was automatic or something so when I went to tell him how much was in there I about had a heart attack, haha… Lesson learned!

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By: theFIREstarter https://eliteedgemoney.com/marrying-logic-emotion/#comment-131695 Thu, 02 Jan 2014 07:22:47 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=37119#comment-131695 I’m a numbers guy so will always follow the math, as that will ultimately be the thing that makes me happy anyway!

The best thing about the discussion is the two choices are both smart. It’s not like some people are arguing that it’s best to finance a new car over paying off your mortgage, which would obviously be a ridiculous argument :)

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By: Heather https://eliteedgemoney.com/marrying-logic-emotion/#comment-131666 Wed, 01 Jan 2014 05:48:19 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=37119#comment-131666 I completely agree! Different people are motivated by different things. Isn’t getting the goal accomplished the so-called “wrong” way better than not even starting at all?

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