Comments on: Problems Come, and Problems Go (Even in FIRE) https://eliteedgemoney.com/problems-come-and-problems-go-even-in-fire/ Money | Minimalism | Mohawks Mon, 29 Nov 2021 09:23:55 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: Rajeev https://eliteedgemoney.com/problems-come-and-problems-go-even-in-fire/#comment-359293 Mon, 29 Nov 2021 09:23:55 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=63988#comment-359293 Taking care on the personal front is still very much important no matter whether you are in FIRE or not. Maintaining fruitfully relationship is also a cornerstone of happy and content retirement.

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By: Impersonal Finances https://eliteedgemoney.com/problems-come-and-problems-go-even-in-fire/#comment-358533 Tue, 23 Nov 2021 06:02:22 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=63988#comment-358533 In reply to Accidentally Retired.

Crazy I didn’t even realize it was a guest post! In that case–the post applies to both of you! Keep up the great work!

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By: steveark https://eliteedgemoney.com/problems-come-and-problems-go-even-in-fire/#comment-358525 Mon, 22 Nov 2021 22:57:00 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=63988#comment-358525 When our company was bought up by a Fortune 200 corporation everything changed. For one they put me in charge of our company, and that was nice, but the pressure was ratcheted up so much it became like a minefield where every step was a potential landmine. I kind of enjoyed the money and the amphetamine juiced hectic pace for a couple of years but it grew old fast. I was a happy guy in spite of it because I didn’t need the money, I could just walk off into the sunset, and did. And I think if you are a happy guy at work you’ll likely be a happy guy in retirement. And if the opposite is true you might have a problem in retirement. I know some people are very unhappy in retirement, I guess I question whether they weren’t already pretty miserable before they retired?

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By: Lou https://eliteedgemoney.com/problems-come-and-problems-go-even-in-fire/#comment-358516 Mon, 22 Nov 2021 16:03:02 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=63988#comment-358516 In reply to Impersonal Finances.

Impersonal Finances – I tend to be more negative minded also. However, after being around someone for over a week who tends to verbalize every negative thing, I realize how draining it can be on the listeners and it has inspired me to be more positive. I also keep a gratitude journal. It’s amazing how that helps, too.

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By: Accidentally Retired https://eliteedgemoney.com/problems-come-and-problems-go-even-in-fire/#comment-358375 Sun, 21 Nov 2021 21:39:26 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=63988#comment-358375 In reply to Joel.

I gotta see a picture of that if it ends up happening! Speaking of which, I am grateful for your morning emails. Always a huge mood booster. EVERY DAY!

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By: Accidentally Retired https://eliteedgemoney.com/problems-come-and-problems-go-even-in-fire/#comment-358374 Sun, 21 Nov 2021 21:38:18 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=63988#comment-358374 In reply to Impersonal Finances.

Hey Impersonal Finances – thanks! And to be clear, these are my issues, not Joel’s. And you are right, at least most of my issues now are more directly in my control and never at the control of an employer. That is the best part, is having that sort of freedom.

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By: Accidentally Retired https://eliteedgemoney.com/problems-come-and-problems-go-even-in-fire/#comment-358373 Sun, 21 Nov 2021 21:35:53 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=63988#comment-358373 In reply to Olaf, the Mile High Finance Guy.

Thanks Olaf! Problems are all relative, that is for sure.

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By: Accidentally Retired https://eliteedgemoney.com/problems-come-and-problems-go-even-in-fire/#comment-358372 Sun, 21 Nov 2021 21:30:15 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=63988#comment-358372 In reply to ZygBlog.

Thanks!

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By: Impersonal Finances https://eliteedgemoney.com/problems-come-and-problems-go-even-in-fire/#comment-358032 Sun, 21 Nov 2021 04:53:19 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=63988#comment-358032 Hey Joel–awesome, honest post. Sorry to hear about the family relationship trouble–sometimes there is nothing you can do but try.

You are right about trading one set of problems for another, though at least you are slightly more in control of what problems you choose to spend your time on. I am a fairly negative person by some birth defect but working hard at gratitude and positivity–and leaning on people like you for inspiration!

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By: Joel https://eliteedgemoney.com/problems-come-and-problems-go-even-in-fire/#comment-357548 Fri, 19 Nov 2021 20:57:39 +0000 https://staging.eliteedgemoney.com/?p=63988#comment-357548 “Gratitude is the ultimate problem solver”. This is my new fav quote. Gonna get it tattooed on my forearm :)

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